A dear friend of mine, who passed away a few years ago, referred to our time here on earth as:
“This Tiny Life”.
At first I didn’t quite understand what he meant, but I believe I do now.
At the beginning of my life, the thought of living 80+ years seemed like an eternity.
Time passes so slowly when you are young.
There were days I couldn’t imagine I would ever be 21.
That was years away!
But once you get going- on your own, in the real world,
things speed up.
There is college, career, dating, marriage(s), children, divorce(s)
your children’s activities, camps, family vacations,
school, work travel, moving, creating a home, climbing the ladder at work ,
sick children, sick parents,
disappointment, sadness and joy.
It leaves little time for reflection.
When we do find the opportunity to reflect on time, we’ve used up most of it.
I’m 68 and I honestly do not know where the last 50 years have gone!
I know I’ve lived them.
But so much is just a blur in my memory.
The less time we have left, the faster it goes.
I’m beginning to panic, because I feel like I am just starting “to get it” –
just starting to understand what I’m doing here,
how to do it and how to make the most of it.
I’ve struggled, as we all do ,
trying to figure things out and
I’ve come to the conclusion that trying to figure things out
is a waste of what little time we do have.
Just live. Jump in. Do it!
Do your very best and always try to do better.
Embrace this tiny life, on this beautiful blue planet.
Be happy for each and every little thing along the way;
Celebrate being here and how much beauty there is.
Be grateful for each blessing you have
and believe me, there are many .
All the pain and misery we endure along the way
is something that cannot be helped.
It cannot be avoided so all we can do is change our response to it.
We can lessen the effects through our gratitude for life and
our determination to be happy with “what is”.
Don’t let anything rob you of your happiness.
In doing so, we may live out this “tiny lifetime” the way it was meant to be lived;
joyfully, loving and being loved;
secure in the knowledge that we made the most of all of it.
When it’s time to leave, there will always be sadness, tears and pain.
But hopefully ,we will leave without a lot of regret
about how we lived .
The choice is ours to make.